More Abuse...

After I blogged last month on child abuse, there have been several high-profile abuse allegations. Both Syracuse basketball coach Bernie Fine and former Penn State assistant football coach Jerry Sandusky were accused of multiple counts of sex abuse. Disgusting.

How does this happen? Honestly, I'm not certain. But one thing I am certain of is that I want to protect my children.

I have personally met sexual abusers and suspected sexual abusers. My fifth grade math teacher went to jail for molesting students during class. I also know a coach who was repeatedly accused of sexual abuse, but no charges were ever filed. Based on a few personal observations, here are several signs of potential abuse:

• Coaches lingering around showers.
• Kids sitting on coaches laps.
• Coaches being overly friendly (or too touchy...).
  
• Coaches selectively giving lavish or excessive gifts.
  

More signs to watch for are noted on ProtectKids.com and at USAToday.com. Of course, you need to use basic common sense to determine if a coach or another adult is crossing the line. My best advice is when in doubt, keep your child away from a potential abuser. Go with your gut.

Please, keep your children safe. Just my two cents...

Kim